Sunday, October 21

Day 80: It's Okay To Cry.


“I have been crying," she replied, simply, "and it has done me good. It helps a woman you know, just as swearing helps a man.” 
― Horace Annesley Vachell, The Romance of Judge Ketchum

Don't ask me to stop when I am crying, just hold me for I might need it. You have no right to tell me how to feel. People often ask me to help them to be strong, to help them to hold on to their pieces. Anyone can try and survive for one more day, we need to live and to look up to the next morning. People have these strange inhibitions like crying is a sign of the weak. I would say, "That is bullshit."

Tears are okay. They are a part of you which you need to let go. When a lot of pain has accumulated within you, it needs to be flushed out. The kidney filters out all the nitrogen from your bloodstream which is our daily intake along with oxygen. If you remember the percentage of nitrogen in air is about 70. So is the ratio of pain and happiness around you. It okay to let your body filter out what isn't needed. There is no point in holding back all the hurt, all the grudges within you. It will just harm you.

Let go. Cry. It helps. Well, it always helps me. I let go, when I've been strong for too long. I am not ashamed. If a girl cries, she isn't doing drama, it just helps her as it helps men when they swear. It can't get worse, it will only get better. There is a certain darkness needed to see the stars.

4 comments:

  1. I love your posts sooo sooo much!!! \m/
    I <3 them all!!!

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  2. I love your posts sooo sooo much!!! \m/
    I <3 them all!!!

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  3. I love your posts sooo sooo much!!! \m/
    I <3 them all!!!

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  4. oops! :p
    3 times hogya! XP
    sorry! :p

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